Kayden Kross

Adam & Eve contract star has been the subject of many blogs, and many of them have had something to do — be it fallout or otherwise — because of an assumed relationship with a certain Nobody. She recently tackled the subject in her official blog at unkrossed.com where she writes:

That gets me to the point of this blog. I’ve taken a lot of crap for my association with Mike South. We were originally put in touch because of his ties to Adam and Eve at the time and my interest in a contract with them. During the interview process we talked a lot and it turned into a weird friendship. I knew nothing about his blog or who he was in the industry. The only thing I knew was that he was immediately helpful when I was a complete stranger and has been available to talk 24 hours a day ever since, and especially when I’ve needed someone to talk to most. He has never been on my payroll or held any official title with me, there has never been anything sexual between us, but he has always been there to talk me through everything from the most serious and personal to the most useless and random. Months after my contract with Adam and Eve was in place he invited me to write for his site and I was happy to. That’s when I learned that it’s best not to hold public opinions.

The thing I didn’t expect is that I would start being tied to everything that ended up on his site whether I was aware that it was even posted or not, much less whether I agreed or not. I have tried to make a passive effort at distancing myself from his blog because of this. I do not write for it. I do not have an affiliate link from it and generally I try not to read it or any industry sites for that matter. Mike and I have had screaming matches over this issue but there is no simple resolution. Either I have a public association with MikeSouth.com and deal with the consequences of that or I don’t. I do not want to deal with the consequences of other people’s opinions. It has nothing to do with my feelings about that person or anyone else. I just don’t want to answer for things I have no control over. It’s hard not to laugh when people think I’m somehow Mike’s puppet master. He was posting controversial blogs long before I came along and he will be doing so long after I’m gone. He’s had good relationships with people and he’s had bad relationships with people and regardless of their standing with him he’s never been someone you can control and I am one on a long list of people who can attest to that.

“Nobody” has a unique way of trying to make himself look better at the expense of others. Just this past weekend there was what looked like a post from Kayden on his site, but it was actually a blog copied and pasted from her unkrossed.com site. Something must’ve happened because shortly thereafter it was off of his site. Was posting this an effort of damage control? In my opinion, I think so.

The bottom line here is that Kayden has now set the record straight that she has no professional ties to “Nobody,” no longer writes for his site, and has learned some things along the way. Hopefully she’s learned (as I already have) what kind of person Nobody is deep down and the second you don’t agree with him or call him out on his bullshit, the tables turn rather quickly and nothing is sacred. Friendship and “family” goes right out the window for the sake of repairing a bruised ego or gaining 24 extra hits to a free website.

I know I personally wish her the best in achieving her goals, and hosting the AVN Awards is a step in that direction. To read the full blog from Kayden, head over to unkrossed.com.